STAYING ACTIVE (2) from Living a Full Life, MMP, Oogachaga

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Using Internet to Socialise
If you are keen on private one-to-one dates or wish to connect with others online, you can try popular chatrooms like Sgboy and Besides chatrooms, you can meet people online through portals like,, Planet Romeo, Dudesnude or Manjam and gay social networking mobile applications.
It is possible that fun may be on the minds of many in these online sites but there are many who are also looking for companionship, friendship or simply a good chat. And if you are looking out for fun, always remember to stay safe and protected by bringing along your condoms and lubricants. The Gay Men Dating Survival Guide # will list more pointers on physical safety while meeting people.
Going out for a Drink
Looking for a drink or getting to meet someone face to face? There are many pubs which are popular among gay men such as DYMK, Lockerroom, Taboo, Tantric Bar, Backstage Bar, Lluvia, Rewind and eBar##.
However, do expect a mixed crowd of guys from different age groups in these night spots which are located in the Chinatown area. With increasing social acceptance of LGBT communities,  you can also expect to find some straight and gay friendly crowds at these places, keep an open mind and you will find many of your stereotypes on straight people will be challenged.
Going Saunas and Cruising
Some men prefer going to men-only saunas where they can be themselves. Many also use saunas as sex venue. These saunas will provide you with condoms and lubricants but you can bring your favourite condoms and lubricants for added pleasure. Although the saunas have lockers for your use, try not to bring anything valuable during these sauna trips. Continue to practice safer sex as you had done in your younger days. At times, there will be temptation to give in to some hot guys but if you want to maintain good health and enjoy sex without worries, use a condom.
If you are cruising in public places, always remember that it is an offence to have sex in the public###. Pick up your man and enjoy a pleasurable time in the privacy of your own home or a hotel. As cruising grounds are usually dark and secluded, be alert and identify situations that can place you in physical danger like robbery or assault. If it appears unsafe, leave immediately.
#another publication by Oogachaga
##popular gay spots (pubs and clubs) in Singapore – for more information, go to Utopia Asia @ 
###law in Singapore
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