Monthly Archives: October 2014

CONFESSIONS OF A MARRIED MAN

PROFILE Name:  Thomas (Not his real name) Age:  50+ years old Religion:  Roman Catholic Orientation:  More gay than straight.  Can be happy having sex with wife but needs to have man with man sex. Will not feel lost without women. … Continue reading

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WILL YOU STILL LOVE ME TOMORROW?

Richie Jen (任贤齐), popular singer from Taiwan shot to fame with the song Too Soft Hearted (心太软).  He had always given the image of a tough motorbike riding kind of guy.  Even when he moved his career to Hong Kong … Continue reading

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OCTOBER-APRIL RELATIONSHIPS:  MY THOUGHTS AFTER WATCHING MATTHEW BOURNE’S SWAN LAKE

Picture this:  Bare chested men moving with powerful grace, leaping effortlessly in the air, then landing ever so elegantly.  Rippling muscles, taut with the energy of flight, six packs glistening with perspiration under the spots.  It was a gay man’s … Continue reading

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SPECIAL INTEREST GROUPS & FRIENDSHIP GROUPS

A month ago, I wrote an article   about special interest groups and how they serve an important role in community building for gay and bisexual men.  (https://octobermansg.wordpress.com/2014/09/21/many-single-men-and-the-need-for-special-interest-groups/)  There was some interest in how to get in touch with these … Continue reading

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