Category Archives: Shhh!! Don’t say this in polite company

Taboo subjects.

THE TRAGEDY OF BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN (the last of the 3 article series on the Married Gay Man)

There was some open space between what he knew and what he tried to believe, but nothing could be done about it, and if you can’t fix it you’ve got to stand it. Brokeback Mountain by Annie Proulx http://www.taosmemory.com/oscar/BrokebackMountainNovle.pdf Annie Proulx chose … Continue reading

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CONFESSIONS OF A MARRIED MAN

PROFILE Name:  Thomas (Not his real name) Age:  50+ years old Religion:  Roman Catholic Orientation:  More gay than straight.  Can be happy having sex with wife but needs to have man with man sex. Will not feel lost without women. … Continue reading

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WILL YOU STILL LOVE ME TOMORROW?

Richie Jen (任贤齐), popular singer from Taiwan shot to fame with the song Too Soft Hearted (心太软).  He had always given the image of a tough motorbike riding kind of guy.  Even when he moved his career to Hong Kong … Continue reading

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AM I A SEX ADDICT?

Advisory: Read only if you are 18 years of age and above, and are comfortable reading about sex. This article contains opinions which are not necessarily the opinions of the Editor. When you mention the word ‘addict’, readers’ brows will … Continue reading

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VOICES FROM THE GAY CHATROOM:  Is sex always on their minds? (Age Advisory – Do not read if you are under 18 and/or are affected by sensitive and/or lurid information)

Recently, I was asked this question by a sincere young gay man – “Can I go to the chatroom if I want to make friends but not to find sex?”  I couldn’t answer immediately; I needed time to think of … Continue reading

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Sauna and Me: Why the Sauna Is Good For Single Gay Men

Editor’s Advisory:   Do not read this article if you are below 18 years of age or if you are uncomfortable reading about sexual practices.  Editor’s Note While this article doesn’t represent the views of the October Man Diaries, it … Continue reading

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STAYING ACTIVE (2) from Living a Full Life, MMP, Oogachaga

READING ADVISORY:  Read if you are ages 18 and above only. Using Internet to Socialise If you are keen on private one-to-one dates or wish to connect with others online, you can try popular chatrooms like Sgboy and Gay.com. Besides … Continue reading

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